Monday 12 September 2016

NO WORDS

I am sitting outside by a pond of lily pads:
Bulrushes, and
A field of antique farm wagons:
Painted wooden wheels.

A mixed forest surrounds the
Manicured setting
To define this home as a place of
Peace and rootedness.

The grey sky holds it all down.

What’s left to do
But merge.
Merge
With the brown stillness,
With the green aliveness,
With the white bliss between.

What’s left to do
But drink.
Drink
Calming garden tea,
Rustling apple breezes,
Nourishing harvest breath.

No words.

No words.

Mmmm.

Wow.

Hey.


Shhh.


CawCawCawCaw!

HaHaHaHa!


Shhh.


I love you more…

Tuesday 6 September 2016

MOM, WOW!

                                                                              My 3 ½ year-old granddaughter is learning to read and was showing me how her daddy taught her to recognized the word ‘the’.  I would read a story and she would pick out the ‘the’s’ and ‘read’ them out loud.  Being a writer, I love words and find them fun to play with, so when we came to the word ‘mom’, I pointed out how, if you turned the book upside down, it became the word ‘wow’.   Every time we read the book, and we read it a lot that weekend, we would read the word mom and turn the book around and read the word wow.  Mom, Wow!  And she would laugh. And I would laugh.  Mom-Wow!  Ha ha ha.  All weekend it was mom-wow and laughter!
How simple and fascinating life can be.
“Be like children,” the sages say. Find wonder around you and in you, and you’ll never grow old.
I wonder.

These days, actually, there’s lots to wonder about.  Being curious about innocence can seem a ridiculous waste of time when the other reality that’s happening around the world right now - the violence and chaos and abuse - seem far more significant, far more important. Funny, if we choose to live only focused on the innocence, we are accused of living with our head in the sand, too soft, and outrageously out of touch.  Yet if we are fully focused on the terror, glued to the news and rhetoric, we are considered educated, even though we are denying the wonder that abounds and enlightens us as well.  Hmm, curious.
Lately, I’ve been trying to sit and be present with both.  They are both true, the innocence and the terror, so is it necessary to judge one to be better than the other?
Sitting with both ends of the spectrum is not the same as sitting in the middle. Sitting on the fence is withdrawing, not participating. This is an honourable place as it can give a new perspective and a time to reflect.   (Nothing is all good or all bad.)
Opening to all possibilities and having room to respect all, however, is such a strange concept we can barely wrap our heads around it.  How do we live with paradox in a ‘you’re with us or against us’ world?  But as the cultures blend and science and the internet introduce us to expanding visions, our curiosity is being piqued.  Hot and cold doesn’t have to equal warm anymore, hot and cold can equal hot with cold – or Sweet Heat, as Kawartha Dairy named their newest ice cream flavour.  The more we write about paradoxes, sing and joke about them, the more comfortable we become around them.  And the more we can harmonize with all possibilities, the healthier, happier, more abundant and free we will be.
So how do we acclimatize to this evolving way?  Are there books?  Are there organizations?  Are there apps?  Probably yes to all since we humans are always wanting something new to buy to make us ‘better’.  Are they necessary?  No, not really.
The most courageous and boldest act we can partake in is simply to smile.  Smiling at someone is a sign of recognition.  It is an act of harmonizing. It’s telling the other ‘I see you. I see the pain you’re in or fun you’re having and I’m with you.  You are beautiful and I’m with you.’  How does it get better than that?  Feeling safe and connected is what we all want and smiling does that.  Mother Teresa said: “We shall never know all the good that a simple smile can do.”
No wonder I love being around my grandchildren.  Kids smile, on average, around four-hundred times a day whereas adults only smiles about twenty times. Too bad for adults because science has proven those who smile more are less stressed and sleep better.  Hmm, curious. No wonder the sages tell us to be more like children
Yes, there is horror around us.  There is no denying it.  But there is also so much wonder too. Let’s not deny that either.
Smile: miles – limes - slime!




CLEAN BREATHING

Have you ever found yourself spellbound watching a hawk soar effortless high above? Or caught yourself mesmerized by a fish hovering in one spot for no apparent reason?  Or been fully entertained by a gull’s feather drifting on the water with billowy clouds reflecting beneath it?
How easy it is to fully surrender in nature. No need for answers, no need for questions, just expansive possibilities twinkling around everywhere.
“Thank you. I love you. Bless you:” just twinkling around.

What a rich summer this has been: the visitors, the entertainment, the culinary delights. It’s all been so exquisitely juicy, much like our bumper crop of cherry tomatoes this year.
Follow your bliss.
Follow your path.
Follow your breath.
Not only do the trees purify the air around us, so too do our peaceful bodies.  Acting as a filter system for negativity, our slow, relaxed nervous system imprints on inhaled circulating breath to restore it to a balanced state then exhales it back into our environment. Dr. Masaru Emoto showed that human consciousness has an effect on the molecular structure of water. Is it possible that space out there is not the final frontier, but space in our breath is?
Hmm.
What if a clean breathing movement took hold like the clean water and clean eating movements did?  What if the local market not only had fresh food and artisanal crafts for sale but also offered a place to breathe in joy together?  Maybe sing?  Maybe dance?  Maybe play? Together.
And what about in school cafeterias?  Would kids who intentionally breathed together and understood their influence on the web of life in this intimate way, be as likely to bully one another?
In the West we take our breath for granted.  We are born; we have it.  We die; we don’t have it. But as Eastern philosophies take hold here, we’re slowly becoming more mindful of what we’re doing to ourselves.  The slower and deeper our breath, the fuller our connection to life around us.  The faster and shallower our breath, the more we feel isolated and unhealthy. 
Yoga, Tai Chi and Chi Kung teach many types of breathing techniques that can warm us up and cools us down, help us concentrate and help us focus our strength on attackers. Masters even know how to feed themselves with breath alone.
Do you want to know how?   Look to the trees. Not only do they feed off the nutrients they take in through their root system, they also reach out with their limbs to draw in light and life through their leaves. Our breath does the same for us: we can draw in light and life and be fully alive, fully at home in our own skin, quite simply by utilizing our breath.  The charisma we see in movie stars can be ours too when we choose to energize from two sources instead of just one.  If we can synch up with nature’s rhythm, surrender to its subtleties, we can hook in to this dynamic energy and be lifted to a whole new realm of possibilities.
Changing our breathing pattern takes awareness and effort. There are meditations, movements, and repeated phrases that can help the process along. I’ve studied many over the past thirty years and to sum it up: connect with earth energy (see the feather technique in the previous column: http://thegiftofthewhitetrail.blogspot.ca/2016/06/stones-feathers.html) and then follow your breath: two beats into your belly and down, and four beats back to your spine and down- two beats into your belly and down, and four beats back to your spine and down, relaxing a little more each time.
Soon enough, “Thank you, I love you, Bless you,” will be twinkling around everywhere and everyone. Who knows, perhaps the Haliburton Highlands will become known as the home of the Clean Breathing Movement.

People will come.  They’ll come to the Haliburton Highlands for reasons they can’t fathom.  They’ll arrive as innocent as children, longing for the past. Of course, we won’t mind if they look around.  It’s only $20 per person.  They’ll pass over the money without even thinking about it; for it is money they have and peace they lack.  And it’ll be as if they dipped themselves in magic waters.*

Wow, expansive possibilities are twinkling everywhere!

*Paraphrased from the movie Field of Dreams based on the novel Shoeless by Canadian author W. P. Kinsella